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This stuff I’m about to give you girls is golden. There are plenty of books and emails floating out there by self-proclaimed “players” and “pick-up artist” who are giving advice to guys on how to pick you girls up. Most of these writers are trying to help guys become cocky and confident in order to increase their chances of getting you into bed. They aren’t giving dating advice or advice on long-term relationships, they are to-the-point with their objective, closing the deal. So here is some of the advice guys are receiving these days and actions you may recognize with some of the players you’re meeting at the bars or at school. Here is some advice guys have been given regarding Buying Things for Women (AKA getting laid without spending any money):
I can remember when I used to think that I needed to always take women out, buy them dinner, and pay for whatever I could think of to get women’s attention. It was really a horrible feeling. The worst part was that the more nice things I did for women when I first met them, the more apprehensive and “standoffish” they seemed to act. It was almost as if they interpreted my actions as ME TRYING TOO HARD, and they instinctively played “hard to get” in response.
The question of “Should I pay for dinner?” is as old as dirt. So let me answer it with one of my typical multi-part answers. And the first part of my answer is going to be
another question to YOU…WHY WOULD YOU PAY FOR A WOMAN’S DINNER? And for that matter, why would you buy gifts and do favors for a woman that you just met and don’t know?
IT’S PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU WANT SOMETHING. And guess what? Attractive women are VERY perceptive. They can usually size a guy up in a matter of SECONDS.
She KNOWS what’s on your mind. And she’s going to take all the clues you give her to decide how much you like her… and how much of a WUSS you are as well.
Now I’m going to throw you a real curve ball…I have friends who are very good with women that take women to NICE dinners all the time. I’m talking two hundred PLUS dollars for dinner and drinks ALONE. I also have friends who almost NEVER take women out for so much as a cup of coffee… yet they have more women than they can handle.
Is this possible? Are the guys who are buying dinner actually SUCCESSFUL at bribing women with food?
Or do both techniques work? Read the rest of this entry »
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